A Year of Kinks: Kinky bucket list for couples

69 sex-tivities to fulfill in 1 year.


If you've been in a long-term, committed relationship, you know sex can become monotonous, and for some people, it becomes sort of a job. But it doesn't have to be that way. Couples who had spent lots of years together have greater advantages on their side, like communication, trust, and love. Nothing is impossible to conquer with those things.


A couple can have a fulfilling and satisfying sex life despite the many years together. The more the merrier, the saying goes.


We came (pun intended) with a list of 69 (of, course it needed to be 69!) kinky sex-tivities to do within a year (365 days). To be able to complete this task -a year of kinks- you must be able to perform 1 activity every 5 days or you're doomed!


Just joking! You're not doomed. You will be behind schedule or on a very tight leash (I meant deadline!).


If you consider yourselves a very kinky couple (I'm proud of you, you kinky babes!), you should be thinking you've done it all. But, believe me, horny mistresses and masters, there's plenty of room to do more! Like these!



69 sex-tivities for a Year of KINKS!


  1. Food plate! -Cover your partner's body with something you like to eat. Think of strawberry slices on her nipples, or a little drizzle of caramel at the base of his shaft. A delicious extra to an already sumptuous main dish!

  2. Blindfolded sex. -What will happen? You don't know! One of the most erotic sensations is the pleasure of the unknown. One of you will be blindfolded and the other one will be in total control.

  3. Try light bondage. -Nothing as erotic as being at the mercy of someone else. Tie your partner's hands in the bed or make them sit in a chair and tie them with a rope or with a tie! You'll never see that tie with the same eyes ever again. Do what you want with your tied partner (with their consent, of course).

  4. Sensory box. -Buy 5 things, each one destined to pamper one of the 5 senses. Hearing: sexy music. Touch: a long feather. Smell: his favorite perfume or a scented candle. Taste: flavored lubes or fruits or chocolates. Vision: sexy lingerie for both. Use all items the same night.

  5. Sex in MUTE. -Practice the grandmas' technique and be extra quiet. Imagine kids are sleeping close by. That kind of quiet. But to make it interesting, no slow sex is allowed. Just backseat of the car wild sex style.

  6. Scream! -And by "scream", I don't mean the horror movies' screams. Let those sexy moans grow with the intensity. Don't hold back! The worst thing that can happen is to get a neighborhood round of applause when you exit your house.

  7. Outdoorsy- I'm not trying to convince you to do something illegal. (I'm not even suggesting doing something illegal.) Not at all. But what about going to the garage in the middle of the day to do your thing? Or your private patio... Endless possibilities. Just don't get all naked, in case a second-floor neighbor wants a free show.

  8. Leave the window open (ish)- Even the most prudish gets a little aroused thinking on being watched while getting sexy. Open those shades halfway for a little exhibitionism effect. Truth is, nobody will ever see you with shades halfway but thinking you are been watched has an arousing psychological effect.

  9. Dressed sex. -Getting ready for a date night? Or dressing to work? Sounds like a great quicky opportunity.

  10. Slippery sex. -Pour lubricant all over your body and try to do your thing. Use an old blanket or comforter to avoid staining your cute satin bedsheets. Or go to the floor and use a new shower curtain or a plastic tablecloth. That means war!

  11. Multi-sense deprivation- Cover your partner's eyes. Put on some headphones with relaxing music. Tie their hands on the headboard. Now it's kinky time! Ride that without warning!

  12. Night sex outdoors. -Nothing beats a full moon and a starry sky. Except for outdoor sex under the full moon and starry sky. Keep indoor lights off or your hyperactive-bunny shadows will be projecting all over your neighborhood.

  13. Full role play. -Despite this may require a little planning, a full role-play can be super fun. What you want to be? The cop and the lawbreaker? Teacher and student? The mechanic and the lady in distress? The hungry guy and the sexy pizza delivery-lady? Play your part from beginning to end. Meet somewhere else outside your home, build that tension. And go back home to end this thing, without losing your part! You deserve an Oscar for such interpretation!

  14. Touch each other while on a road trip- But don't go too far while driving. Avoid an accident.

  15. Hotel balcony- Needed vacations? Yes! There's no best moment to fulfill this one! Get a room - the higher the better. He can hug you from behind... and the rest... you know what to do. If you manage to be on a cruise and have a balcony room, you get extra points and you may scratch two extra sex-tivities from the bucket list, you horny beasts!

  16. Practice yoga for couples.- But naked.

  17. Play the masseuse.- I'm not a sponsor of involving third parties, so dress up as a masseuse, get your warm lotions and give a massage. And a hand... for a happy ending.

  18. Slowmotion sex.- Have the slowest sex you can for the longest time you both can resist. We are aiming for quantity here!

  19. Dominion!- Who's always in charge? Well, not this time. Today, you'll be the one who performs after being instructed. You're not leading today. You're obeying.

  20. Backdoor action.- First-timers? Lots of lube and patience. You can start with a tiny butt plug... Not for everyone, but just an idea.

  21. Play a sexy Jenga.- Yes! Super kinky and entertaining. Check out this one!

  22. Twister your way to bed- With this awesome Twister twist to get you super horny!

  23. Sex toys. -Each one of you will buy a sex toy for the other. You must use it during the same sex-romp.

  24. Drunk sex.- There are only two things that can happen here. You either have great wild sex without lots of planning or you'll both end up asleep. No matter what happens in the end, this is the only moment when intentions count. So, drink together, rub each other, dance, and then go for it.

  25. Nipple clips. - I know... you get it!

  26. Muscle stimulator. -But instead of using it for back pain, use it to give a tingle sensation in her nipples or clit, or his balls!

  27. Sub for a day. -What about being the obedient one for a day? Do as your mistress/master orders without questioning. This requires trust but also a caring hand, so be thoughtful here. Don't order your "sub for a day" to clean your car, fold the laundry and cook 4-course meals. They are there to please you in your darkest desires.

  28. Seat face to face and masturbate. Watch one another and get aroused by the sigh of your loving partner doing their thing!

  29. Stimulation Day. - Reserve a full day to attend to your partner's sexual needs. Erotic massage, oral, teasing, lingerie catwalk,...

  30. New position. -Search the internet or a Kamasutra book and pick the most bizarre position you can find. Try to perform it till you both climax in that position. Frustrating but fun.

  31. Naked pics. -Send your partner a naked pic with just this warning: "A sneak pic of what you'll have for dinner."

  32. Touch each other inappropriately. -Finally going back to the theater after quarantine? Wonderful. Take advantage of the empty space and touch each other. Perfect warm-up.

  33. Spanking.

  34. Sex Toy. -Use a sex toy that comes with a remote, or one of those controlled by apps. Relinquish the control to your partner and enjoy the pleasure.

  35. Foreplay-gasm. -For this one, actual penetration is forbidden. You both must climax by external stimulation and foreplay.

  36. Fantasies. -Share one kinky fantasy each and perform both.

  37. Leave your panties at home. -Go out on a date and "forget" your panties at home. Make sure to flash him getting out of the car.

  38. Read together. - An erotica short story or one of those mom porn novels. Then enact your favorite part.

  39. Ask these naughty questions.

  40. Try edging. -If you're not familiar, edging is the practice of building up an orgasm and stopping before it happens. Build up the tension, stop, and start again. It's supposed to achieve even stronger orgasms. So, why not?

  41. Personal disco party sex. -Both wear headphones listening to your favorite jam. This one is particularly curious as you'll be listening and moving to different beats. Can both of you reach orgasm this way?

  42. Have sex in the car. -Doesn't matter if the car is in the garage. That counts as well.

  43. Try flavored lubes. -Perfect for some oral action.

  44. Play with ice. -Slide an ice cube all over your partner's body. Hold the ice between your lips for a sexier sensation.

  45. Play with fire. -Don't fear. I meant wax candle!

  46. Tightening cream. -Yes, use a cream down there for one like-a-virgin sensation. Read the reviews and choose one rated by the ladies.

  47. Out-of-state sex. -Take a short trip to another state and have sex.

  48. Dry humping. -Don't tell me you don't know this one... Well, rub your privates while fully dressed. Happy humpday, anyone?

  49. Reverse cowgirl. -Why not? Touch yourself while you're on top.

  50. Tantra chair. -Perfect for those couples with back or hip issues.

  51. Sex swing. -Or a regular swing.

  52. Mirror sex. -Place a mirror in front of your love-making spot and get crazy.

  53. Sex tape. -Record yourselves during sex and watch it together afterward. If too scared, try to record from the neck down. No faces. No judgment.

  54. Body art. -Use your bodies as a canvas with edible body paint.

  55. Rough sex. -But to make it even more interesting, combine it with sweet talk.

  56. Vibrating cock ring. -Try to both finish together while using it.

  57. Simultaneous orgasm. -Try to synchronize your pleasure to orgasm together.

  58. Striptease. -Give your partner one striptease to never forget.

  59. A rim job. -The action of teasing the B-hole. No penetration is intended. Just provoke arousal.

  60. Phone sex. -Instead of talking about the day's events, give him (or her) a call at lunchtime and try to have a long-distance quicky.

  61. Sexting. -Keep your dinner warm and ready sending your significant other sexy and dirty texts all day long.

  62. Watch porn and recreate it.

  63. Dirty talking. -Master the art of talking dirty and sexy.

  64. Paid sex. -Play pretend. He's desperate for some special treatment and she's willing to offer her services. For a reasonable price. Use Monopoly money or funny coupons as cash.

  65. Dinner table sex. Have a sex-capade to your kitchen and let your man eat his dinner and dessert (you...) at the dinner table.

  66. Bless the house. -Have sex in every room of your house.

  67. Skip work for the day... to have sex while kids are at school.

  68. Cook together sex. -Sure, you can let that sauce simmer a little more. Or maybe prepare together a nice lasagna, shove it in the oven and get busy in the kitchen while you wait.

  69. Got behind? -What about a 30 days sex challenge? You'll scratch 30 sex-tivities in just one month and you'll be having plenty of dirty action!

Hope you enjoy these 69'ers and can add more interesting sex-tivities to your sex life!


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Lots of love,

Nydia

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